excuses on infidelity and other crap!
so yesterday’s blog attracted alot of attention….some people felt we were on the right page….and that infidelity was indeed becoming common…others felt…that it wasn’t such a big deal!
to those who felt it was not a big deal and that men are essentially not monogamous…. to them i ask, that if a family is created on the basis of trust and fidelity and in this unit you create children an a home; don’t you owe it to the institution of marriage…( man-created institution, as it might be) your complete, undivided attention. it’s like you cannot work in 2 competing companies simultaneously…it’s a conflict of interests….to think that urs are the only interests that matter in a relationship is selfish and stupid….if you can’t remain monogamous…why not stay out of a relationship!? i have several male friends who are great fun to hang out with, watch bad films with , cry to and even gossip about….but a physical relationship…is a no-no! that’s the one thing i commit to the one person i’m with….
by saying that you are monogamous…doesn’t cut out other friends in ur life but keep them as friends is my advice because members of the opposite sex can be great friends and help you thru many issues that ur girl-friends can’t….but draw that line. they’ll respect you and you’ll respect you!
and about being completely fulfilled by one person and whether that can happen…if ur still asking..u haven’t found the right person yet! 
